Lagpas tatlong taon nang kasal sina Aubrey Miles at Troy Montero bagamat 20 taon na silang nagsasama.
Ikinasal sila kasabay ng kanilang 17th year bilang magkarelasyon noong June 2022.
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Sa Instagram kahapon, October 27, 2025, nagbahagi si Aubrey ng carousel ng photos nila ni Troy na kuha sa kanilang recent vacation sa Paris, France.
Sa caption, ibinahagi ni Aubrey ang kanyang saloobin sa matibay nilang pagsasama ni Troy sa loob ng dalawang dekada.
Para sa kanya, ang pag-aasawa ay "survival of the fittest" at tanging ang pinakamalakas ang maiiwan.
Ayon kay Aubrey (published as is): "Marriage is survival of the fittest. Only the strongest will stay.
"Daming nagtanong sa akin bakit ang tagal ko nagpakasal, ang dapat na tanong, 'Bakit ako nag pakasal? [heart emoji]'
"We’re only married for 3 years but to be honest, I don’t feel any difference."
Wala raw siyang nararamdamang pagkakaiba noong hindi pa sila kasal ni Troy at matapos silang ikasal.
Naniniwala raw sila pareho ni Troy sa katagang "For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.”
Pagtatapos niya: "We made sure at nag double check pa bago mag pakasal . It took us 17years bago mag pakasal.
"Sabi nila iba pag kasal na at mag boyfriend palang, wrong mentality for me. Bakit kaya ganun?
"I know every couple is different but in marriage we only have one goal, 'For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part,' but then ano ba ang mga possible reasons, strong/solid reason to seperate?"
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AUBREY, NETIZENS REFLECTION ON MARRIAGE AFTER YEARS TOGETHER
Marami namang followers si Aubrey na naka-relate sa sitwasyon ng aktres at ni Troy.
Sabi ng isa, labintatlong taon na silang magkasama ng kanyang partner pero hindi siya nababahala na hindi pa sila kasal.
Hindi naman daw lahat ng relasyon ay parang fairy tale na inaasam-sama ng iba.
Minsan, ang pag-ibig ay sapat na upang tumagal sila.
Buong komento ng fan ni Aubrey: "Idol kitaaaa Ms. @milesaubrey and i guess, this is the common thing that we have. We're already at our 13th year and I don't mind not getting married at all. I know it's the right thing to do pero not always.
"Some relationships are not always the fairytales others wanted. Some of them love going through test over and over again but chose to never let each other go. And I guess, that's the main point there."
Pagsang-ayon ni Aubrey: "Yes Real love is love. No need for anything to prove it. When we commit, we commit that’s getting married is not a joke. Not because both sides can afford to leave each other (financially), we should solve and fix any differences. Hayy very long process"
Naniniwala naman ang isang netizen na nakatatak na sa mga isipan ng Pilipino na ang pagpapakasal ay mas lalong nagpapatibay sa samahan ng mag-asawa dahil daw sa basbas ng simbahan.
Pero, parang pormalidad na lamang daw ito.
Saad ng netizen: "I believe it’s all in our mind and part of our Filipino mindset that to get married is better and that your bond and relationship will get tighter because of God’s blessing (you suppose to get married because God will bless your marriage).
"I believe it is formality. Wala talagang pagkaiba kasal man o hindi. At the end, it’s up to both parties to stay. This is only my opinion ha. No bashing"
Pagsang-ayon muli ni Aubrey: "Yes agree it’s not the marriage, it’s up to both parties talaga. What they believe and what their beliefs."
Ayon naman sa isa: "Marriage is designed by the Lord, marriage is ministry. Kaya expect more more struggles to come. stay in 3cord binding, marriage wont fix anything but it will highlight everything! Marriage reflects Jesus!"
Tugon ni Aubrey: "yes we don’t just give up. A promise is a promise. You don’t play with marriage. It’s the most sacred decision you can ever make."
Paniniwala ng isa, ang pagrespeto sa partner ang sikreto kung bakit nagtatagal ang isang samahan.
Sabi nito: "I think the secret in marriage is you have to treat your spouse your ally. Feelings will change but if you are friends and you trust him/ her with everything, the relationship will go on forever. P.S. You are so gorgeous po !!!"
Komento rito ni Aubrey: "Yes even before we got married we know we had a different level of relationship. Definitely not perfect but who like perfect? Boring din naman ang perfect"
Para sa isa, ang panloloko, pang-aabuso, at pagbabago ng prayoridad sa buhay ang madalas dahilan ng hiwalayan.
Pagsang-ayon ni Aubrey, "cheating and abuse tapos na.. Yung iba napag-uusapan at naayos naman"
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