Masayang ibinahagi ni Ellen Adarna ang larawan nila ng anak na si Elias Modesto Cruz at asawang si Derek Ramsay.
Kuha ang larawan sa moving-up ceremony ni Elias, anak ni Ellen sa ex-partner nitong si John Lloyd Cruz.
"MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS."
Sa Instagram nitong nakaraang June 17, 2024, nagbahagi si Ellen ng larawan nila nina Derek at ni Elias na kuha sa moving up ng anak.
Ayon kay Ellen, ang larawan na kanyang ipinost ay ang katangi-tanging "decent" photo nila sa okasyon.
Aniya, "The only decent moving up photo [laughing with tears emoji]"
Maraming netizens ang pumuri sa kanila dahil maganda raw tingnan ang kanilang pamilya.
Pero may isang netizen na hinahanap si "JL", ang initials ng ama ni Elias na si John Lloyd.
Aniya, "JL should be present"
Hindi ito pinalampas ni Ellen. Ayon dito, hindi ibig sabihin na wala si John Lloyd sa picture ay wala na ito sa okasyon.
Pinayuhan din ni Ellen ang netizen na tinawag niyang "manang" na huwag masyadong makitid ang utak.
Buong komento ni Ellen (published as is), "AND YOU SHOULD MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.just because hes not in the photo dsnt mean he was not there . Wag masyadong close minded manang. Present father naman cya meaning present din cya sa lahat ng milestones ng anak nya."
ELLEN ADARNA-JOHN LLOYD CRUZ CO-PARENTING
August 2019, unang napaulat ang hiwalayan nina Ellen at John Lloyd. Sa paglitaw ng kanilang breakup, lumabas ding co-parenting na lamang sila pagdating sa anak nilang si Elias.
Read: John Lloyd Cruz and Ellen Adarna have reportedly broken up
Noong April 2020 ang unang pagkakataong nagsalita si Ellen tungkol sa co-parenting status nila ng dating karelasyong si John Lloyd.
Magdadalawang taon na si Elias noong pagkakataong iyon.
Sa kanyang Instagram post, magiliw na ipinakita ni Ellen ang kanyang “mumbod” kahit noong panahong iyon ay umiiral pa ang enhanced community quarantine.
Nakalagay sa caption ng Cebuana actress: "#quaranTan #mumbod thanks to my ever amazing yaya @jessamucho for the amazing videos, boomerang and pics.”
Sa comments section, isang netizen ang nangahas magtanong kay Ellen tungkol sa anak nila ni John Lloyd.
Napanood daw kasi ng netizen ang Instagram Live nina John Lloyd at Bea Alonzo, kung saan napag-usapan ng magka-love team na kasama ng aktor ang anak nila ni Ellen.
Ipinakilala pa nga ni John Lloyd si Elias kay Bea.
Tanong ng netizen: “How often do you see your son?
“I’ve watched bea ig live and it was mentioned that your son is with john lloyd...
“I’m curious Lang coz I’m a mum and can’t imagine myself being away with my kids”
Sa sagot ni Ellen, lumalabas na dalawang beses kada linggo nakakasama ni John Lloyd ang anak nila.
Sabi ng aktres: "he stays with me. He sleeps over his dads place twice a week because we co parent.”
Read: Ellen Adarna speaks about co-parenting with John Lloyd Cruz
ELLEN SAYS JOHN LLOYD INSISTed ON DOUBLING HIS SUPPORT
Sa Instagram Q&A session naman ni Ellen noong June 30, 2023, sinabi niyang tinutupad ni John Lloyd ang financial obligations nito sa anak.
May naging usapan daw sila na hatian ng gastusin ng anak pero laking gulat niya nang dinoble raw ito ng ex-boyfriend.
Pahayag niya sa kanyang followers, "Okay, I'm going to answer this because I get this a lot. Yes, he does.
"When he asked me, how much does Elias need, I gave him a breakdown of his basic needs, just his basic needs, and that's 10,000 pesos max.
"But he insisted on doubling it."
Alam din daw ni Ellen na kayang-kaya naman ni John Lloyd na magbigay ng mas higit pa sa kanilang usapan pero mas pinili niyang huwag na humingi ng labis sa kinakailangan ni Elias.
Paliwanag niya, "I know he's more than capable of giving more than that, but I told him I cannot accept anything more than PHP20,000, and that's it.
"I also have, because we are co-parenting, I have my obligations and responsibilities for Elias, so it's just fair.
"So, there. Anything more than PHP20,000 for me is just not right, morally not right, because he's not schooling yet.
"He hasn't started school, so that's just basic needs."
Read: Ellen Adarna on John Lloyd Cruz's financial obligations to Elias: "He insisted on doubling it"